From Surviving To Thriving
For years, you've carried what wasn't yours to carry - the shame, the fear, the self-doubt.
Here, we don't force you to "get over it."
We walk beside you as you gently unravel the old patterns, rewire your inner world, and reclaim your birthright: peace, self-trust, and a life you choose for yourself.
Because you were never broken - you've just been surviving.
And now... you get to thrive.
You’ve survived what most can’t see — now it’s time to come home to yourself.
I help women who carry silent wounds from trauma, emotional neglect, burnout, or self-doubt to rediscover their worth, rewire their beliefs, and reclaim their power. Through trauma-informed NLP coaching, reparenting, shadow work, and psychology-backed methods, I guide you through deep inner transformation — gently, bravely, and at your own pace. Whether you’re a mother who’s lost herself, a woman carrying shame that was never hers, or someone simply ready to stop surviving and start living — you’re safe here. You don’t need to fix yourself. You need to find yourself. Let’s begin the journey back to you.
''You are not broken. You are becoming. And you don’t have to do it alone.''
At SWAN XO, we help women like you, break free from the emotional weight of the past and step into the life they were always meant to live. Whether you're healing from trauma, rebuilding self-worth, navigating motherhood, or awakening your deeper potential—this is where the shift begins. Our signature programs blend the power of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), shadow work, inner child healing, and coaching psychology — to gently rewire your subconscious patterns and reconnect you to your true self.
# Science-Backed, Soul-Aligned
We combine proven techniques from Harvard, Stanford, and CBT/DBT research with deeply intuitive coaching practices.
# Trauma-Sensitive & Empowering
No pushing or bypassing—just a safe space where transformation unfolds at your pace.
# Designed for Real Women
Mothers. Creatives. Entrepreneurs. Empaths. Overthinkers. Survivors. You belong here.
“For the first time, I felt like I could breathe again.”
“This coaching didn’t just change my mind—it changed my life.”
“I met the woman I was always meant to be."
Many people assume in-person therapy is the “gold standard,” but research and real-life experience show that online therapy offers unique advantages — often making it the better choice for busy, modern lives
1. Comfort of Your Own Space
When you join from home, you’re in an environment where you already feel safe and relaxed. This can help you open up more easily and integrate what you’re learning into your daily life.
2. More Consistent Support
Online therapy removes the need to travel, making it easier to attend sessions regularly — even when life is busy, the weather is bad, or you’re not feeling your best.
3. Privacy & Confidentiality
No sitting in a waiting room, no chance of bumping into someone you know — just you, your therapist, and a secure, encrypted connection.
4. Flexibility & Accessibility
Whether you live in a remote area, have mobility challenges, or a hectic schedule, online therapy brings expert support directly to you — wherever you are.
5. Same Professional Quality
Multiple studies show online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy for a wide range of concerns, from anxiety and depression to trauma recovery and relationship issues.
Bottom line: Online therapy gives you all the benefits of professional support, without the barriers of location, travel, or time. It’s therapy designed to fit your life — not the other way around.
Find answers to commonly asked questions about specialized coaching and our services.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) coaching is a powerful method that helps you rewire negative thought patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build new habits that align with who you truly want to be. By working with how your mind processes language and experience, NLP coaching helps you break free from self-doubt, fear, and old trauma - so you can live more confidently, calmly, and in control of your life.
Our coaching engagement is fully tailored to you - lasting anywhere from a few weeks to several months, depending on your goals. No matter the length of the journey, I'll be by your side every step of the way.
# Let go of past emotional pain.
# Build real self-confidence and inner peace.
# Stop self-sabotage and set healthy boundaries.
# Heal abandonment, low self-worth, and anxiety.
# Create a clear, powerful vision for your future.
1-on-1 Sessions: R750 per session
Month to Month: R2 700 (x4 sessions) per month (R300 Discount)
Group Sessions: R300 per session per person
WhatsApp Text Program: R750 per month
VIP WhatsApp Anytime Support: R1 500 per month
DIY Self Pace Program: R350 - R2 000 per program
At Swan XO, we believe that everyone has the power to create the life they desire.